A deferral is not a rejection; it means the college wants to reconsider your student’s application during the Regular Decision round. While the news can be stressful, there are concrete, strategic steps families can take right away to strengthen their student’s position and protect their admissions options.
Understanding how deferrals fit into the full range of college admission decisions is the first step toward making smart, financially sound choices during one of the most uncertain moments in the process.
At Great College Advice, our team of six experienced counselors has guided hundreds of families through deferral situations. Below, we answer the most common questions parents ask when a deferral letter arrives—drawing on our team’s 100+ combined years of experience in college admissions.
What Does It Mean to Be Deferred, and How Is It Different from Being Rejected or Waitlisted?
Being deferred means the college has decided not to give your student a final answer yet. If your student applied during an early round (whether Early Decision or Early Action)—the school is essentially saying, “We’re not saying yes and we’re not saying no. We’re going to review your application again during the Regular Decision round.”
Sarah Farbman, Senior Admissions Consultant at Great College Advice, offers a helpful analogy: “Imagine your friend asks you to a party six months from now. You might say, ‘Don’t ask me now—ask me closer to the time.’ That’s basically what being deferred means.”
This is fundamentally different from a rejection, which is a final decision, and from a waitlist, which occurs after Regular Decision and places your student on a backup list if enrolled students decline their spots.
For families evaluating the return on their college investment, here’s the practical distinction: a deferral keeps your student in the running at no additional application cost. A waitlist, by contrast, extends uncertainty well into the summer and can complicate financial planning and deposit decisions at other schools.
What Is the First Thing My Student Should Do After Receiving a Deferral?
The most important first step is to carefully read every piece of communication the school sends with the deferral notification. This might sound obvious, but it matters enormously because different schools handle deferrals very differently.
Sarah Farbman emphasizes this point: “It is very, very important that you follow the instructions the school has given. Sometimes they’ll say, ‘Please fill out this form.’ Other times they’ll say, ‘Please don’t contact us.’ If they’re saying ‘please don’t send us a letter,’ do not send them a letter.”
If the school’s communication leaves room for outreach (or specifically invites it) the next step is to begin preparing a letter of continuing interest, addressed to the specific regional admissions officer responsible for your student’s file.
Equally critical is making sure all remaining Regular Decision applications are finalized and submitted. The Great College Advice Family Handbook stresses this for both practical and emotional reasons: “If a student is rejected from all ED and EA applications, they will have only about two weeks to complete and submit the remaining RD applications. Leaving all this work to the last minute means running the risk of submitting poorly crafted applications.” That guidance applies to deferrals too. Your student’s energy and focus should go toward making every remaining application as strong as possible, rather than fixating on the one school that hasn’t decided yet.
As a member of the Great College Advice community, has noted when advising other parents: the specifics of how deferrals are handled—whether a student automatically enters the Regular Decision pool or needs to take additional steps—depend entirely on the individual school’s process. Always check directly with the admissions office if the deferral letter isn’t clear.
How Do You Write an Effective Letter of Continuing Interest After a Deferral?
A letter of continuing interest (sometimes called a LOCI) is a concise, focused letter sent to the admissions officer responsible for your student’s application. Its purpose is twofold: to reaffirm that the school remains a top choice, and to provide meaningful new information that wasn’t in the original application.
The biggest mistake families make is simply rehashing the original application. Sarah is clear about this: “It is important not to just reiterate your file. They have your file—they already have all the information you gave them. Instead, include new information, new updates, and things you didn’t tell them before in order to affirm that this is a very important school for you.”
Effective updates to include in a letter of continuing interest:
- Academic improvements: A higher test score, strong first-semester senior year grades, or a new AP or honors course. These tangible data points show continued upward trajectory.
- New achievements: A recent award, a new leadership role, or completion of a significant project. Admissions officers want to see that your student has continued to grow since submitting the application.
- Deeper connection to the school: A meaningful new experience with the institution, such as a return campus visit, a conversation with a current student or alumnus, or attendance at a virtual information session. Specificity matters—explain exactly what about the school resonates and why.
- Specific fit: Articulate how the school’s programs, values, or opportunities align with your student’s goals in ways the original application may not have fully conveyed.
Keep the letter to one page or shorter. The tone should be confident and appreciative—not desperate. The Great College Advice team helps students craft these letters as part of their deferral and waitlist support services, ensuring the message is strategically positioned and well-written.
If My Student Was Deferred from Their Early Decision School, Can They Apply ED2 Somewhere Else?
Yes. Once a college defers (or denies) your student’s Early Decision application, the binding commitment is dissolved. Your student is free to apply Early Decision II to a different school.
Once a college has ‘released’ you from the ED agreement either by deferring or denying you, you can feel free to tell another school that you will go there if accepted by applying ED2, if they offer an ED2 application plan.
This is a genuinely valuable strategic option, but it requires careful thought—particularly for families focused on fit and financial outcomes. ED2 deadlines typically fall in early-to-mid January, which means the timeline between receiving a deferral (usually mid-December) and the ED2 deadline can be very tight. Your student needs to already have a clear second-choice school in mind, with supplemental essays substantially prepared.
There’s also a financial trade-off. Applying ED2 is another binding commitment, which means forfeiting the ability to compare financial aid packages from multiple schools in the spring. For families where comparing aid offers is essential to making a sound financial decision, ED2 may not be the right move—even if it could provide an admissions advantage.
This is exactly the kind of strategic decision where working with an experienced admissions counselor can make a significant difference. The team at Great College Advice helps families weigh the admissions probability, financial implications, and emotional readiness involved in an ED2 decision.
Does a Deferral Mean My Student Has No Realistic Chance of Getting In?
No—a deferral is not a soft rejection, and deferred students are genuinely reconsidered during the Regular Decision round. But it is important to set realistic expectations.
Deferred applicants are now competing against the full Regular Decision pool, which is typically much larger than the early applicant pool. The admissions rate for deferred students varies significantly by school and by year, and most colleges do not publish specific deferral-to-admission rates. In general, the acceptance rate is lower than the early round rate.
What deferred applicants can control is how they respond. A strong letter of continuing interest, updated grades showing an upward trend, and continued demonstrated interest all make a meaningful difference. Jamie Berger, veteran college admissions expert at Great College Advice, has seen through his years of experience that the outcome often depends on whether the student was genuinely on the admissions “bubble” versus being deferred as more of a courtesy. Some schools defer a large percentage of their early applicants—in those cases, the deferral pool is highly competitive. Other schools defer a smaller, more targeted group they seriously intend to reconsider.
Understanding which scenario your student likely falls into—something an experienced counselor can help assess—is essential for calibrating expectations and deciding how much additional effort to invest in that particular school versus focusing energy on other strong options.
Why Do Some Colleges Defer Students with High Financial Need from Early Decision?
This is a practical reality that families focused on college costs and ROI should understand. While it’s rarely discussed openly by colleges, financial considerations do play a role in early-round deferral decisions.
The ED system tends to discriminate against students with high financial need in subtle ways that are not easy to prove. If a student with high financial need is qualified for admission but not necessarily a clear stand-out, they may be deferred to the regular round to compete for an offer with everyone else. The reason? A high-need student costs the institution more money.
In practice, this means that colleges with limited financial aid budgets (typically need-aware schools) may fill early-round seats with full-pay students first, then evaluate need-based applicants against the broader Regular Decision pool. As Jamie has noted, Early Decision “is not just about filling the class with kids who want us—it’s about budgeting.”
This does not mean students with financial need should avoid Early Decision entirely. If your student is a genuine standout and the target school meets 100% of demonstrated financial need, ED can still be the right strategy. However, families should always run the Net Price Calculator for any ED school before applying, have an honest conversation about what the family can afford, and understand that the financial implications of ED commitments are significant.
How Should Our Family Manage the Emotional and Financial Stress of a Deferral?
A deferral can feel like being stuck in limbo and the emotional toll on both students and parents is real. The most productive response is to acknowledge the disappointment, then channel energy toward what your family can actually control.
As a member of the Great College Advice community, a parent offers straightforward advice to families facing this situation: “He should be emotionally prepared for the possibility of a deferral or denial. He should keep working on his other applications. Sprinting to write and refine multiple applications in two weeks over the holidays will add risk for errors and quality.”
One parent in the Great College Advice community shared their family’s experience after an ED deferral: their son spent most of his holiday break completing remaining applications, and while it put a damper on the holidays, it ultimately worked out well. The lesson: have those Regular Decision applications as close to finished as possible before early results arrive.
On the financial side, avoid making any commitments or assumptions based on the deferred school’s outcome. Continue researching financial aid options at all schools on the list. The deferred school is now one of many possibilities—not the only path forward.
Make sure your student’s college list includes a balance of likely schools, target schools, and reaches, so that regardless of the deferral outcome, there are options your family can feel genuinely excited about. A community member put it well: “Where you end up is not who you’re going to be for the rest of your life.”
Navigating a Deferral with Expert Guidance
A deferral is a pivot point, not an ending. With the right strategy—a well-crafted letter of continuing interest, a strong set of Regular Decision applications, and a clear-eyed understanding of financial trade-offs—your family can navigate this moment with confidence.
If your family needs hands-on support, whether it’s crafting a letter of continuing interest, evaluating an ED2 strategy, or simply making sense of what comes next, schedule a free consultation with Great College Advice today. Our six-counselor team has 100+ combined years of admissions experience, and our comprehensive packages include dedicated deferral and waitlist support to help your student make the most of every opportunity.
